Planning the Perfect Staycation

Planning the Perfect Staycation

I firmly believe that it’s really important to explore your own city.  It would be such a waste of a perfectly good destination if you didn’t.  This is where the staycation comes into play. It’s a great way to get the feel of a relaxing vacation when you don’t have the time or funds for one.  While travel is obviously something that I’m passionate about, I have a fondness for staycations and the vacation vibes they provide in between big trips.  There are two ways to plan a fantastic staycation: 1.) think of yourself as a tourist in your own city and venture to unchartered territory (to you, anyways), or 2.) book a hotel with some sort of spa/pool facility, get yourself a good book and chilllllllll.  When my boyfriend and I staycationed at The Freehand earlier this year (see staycation blog here), we chose the first option.  We went to a popular restaurant we’d both never been to and wandered around the city, popping into bars and enjoying the River Walk.  I have to say, staying downtown and enjoying the city lights and attractions definitely made me love Chicago even more than I already do.  It’s about time we try the second option, but more on that later.  Whichever option you choose, you are sure to have an amazing time and a whole new appreciation of your hometown.  Plus, you get the added bonus of having the knowledge and experience to play concierge to your friends and family when they ask for accommodation or restaurant suggestions.  Below are my best tips for planning the perfect staycation, take them as you will and let me know what you’re favorite staycation plans are in the comments!

Chicago River

  • Choosing the hotel: This is most likely your first step in planning your staycation.  Base this decision on what kind of experience you’re looking for, i.e.- if you want to relax, book a hotel with room service, a pool and/or spa and a comfy bed, or if you want to explore, choose a hip hotel in the center of the action.  If you live in a big city like I do, the options for hotels are endless and can get a little pricey.  As I am not made of money, I usually check if there are any deals on LivingSocial or Groupon first.
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  • Planning activities: Since you’re familiar with the lay of the land, I’m sure you already know exactly what you’d like to do.  Choose something that you’ve always had on your hometown bucket list, but haven’t made time for yet.  Maybe it’s finally caving in and checking out that city attraction all the tourists rave about, or seeing a play at the local theater or even trying out a trendy bar.  If you aren’t planning on venturing out, make a spa appointment or check if your hotel has any special in-room features you can utilize.
  • Doing dinner: Whether you’re relaxing or exploring, you gotta eat.  For the relaxing type – kick back in your hotel room with some room service or order delivery and eat it in your robe.  If you’re feeling adventurous, go out to a restaurant featuring a style of cuisine you’ve never tried.  Either way, order decadently and enjoy.Pierrot Gourmet Dinner
  • Sleeping in: I don’t really have a whole lot to say on this topic, other than, if you are staycationing, it’s imperative that you sleep in at least a little bit.  Bonus points for you if you order breakfast in bed.
  • The morning after: Take your time in the morning and don’t rush to leave the hotel.  Go for a dip in the pool, go out for breakfast, have a morning shopping spree… whatever you want!  Squeeze every last bit out of this staycation, and don’t even think about checking out early.
    Peninsula Chicago Pool
  • Going back to reality: Of course returning from any sort of vacation is always rough, but since you were only a few miles from home, it should be easier to get back into the swing of things.  Take the rest of the day to soak up all the good staycation vibes and go back into your weekly routine feeling refreshed and happy to know your city a little better.walkhome
Top 5 Friday, Memphis Attractions

Top Five Friday #6

Memphis Attractions

As you could probably tell from my previous blog posts, I’ve just returned from Memphis. Though my boyfriend and I only spent four days in this Southern city, we enjoyed our time there immensely.  It truly is a magnificently musical city with  history to spare.  There were many aspects of Memphis that we really loved, but below are our top five favorite attractions:
Beale Street, Memphis, TN

  1. Beale Street: Beale Street is the epitome of Memphis’s Blues music scene. Every bar down this strip has music pouring out of it.  It’s one of the main attractions in Memphis and it certainly lives up to the hype.  The street is completely lined with bars, gift shops, restaurants and clubs.  We tried to stop into most places, and hit a lot of them.  Our favorites were: Club 152 (really good music and cheap drinks), Absinthe Room (great second-story dive bar with billiards), King’s Palace Café Patio (home of the Beale Big Ass Beers and amazing Blues music), Rum Boogie Café (we had an excellent lunch here and the staff were awesome) and A. Schwab (a kitschy gift store with three levels of souvenirs).
    Sun Studios, Memphis, TN
  2. Sun Studios: This recording studio/historic music icon was Mike’s favorite place that we visited in Memphis. A lot of amazing artists recorded here and add to its famous history; to name a few: Ike Turner, Elvis Presley, Carl Perkins, Johnny Cash, Howlin Wolf…the list goes on.  It’s still currently an active recording studio where many big musicians stop by (U2, Bob Dylan…).  The tour is well worth the $13 and includes a history on the studio, information on its big musicians, and a glimpse of the actual recording studio, which still has all its original features.  Our tour guide was amazing and full of fun facts about the studio and the musicians.  The studio/museum is connected to a café and record/gift shop, which is worth a look around.
    Lorraine Motel National Civil Rights, Memphis, TN 2
  3. National Civil Rights Museum: Set in the Lorraine Motel, where Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated, this museum is too poignant to pass up. After you pay the $15 entrance fee, you start the tour with a short video outlining the purpose of the museum before heading through the exhibits.  Each exhibit is purposeful and intriguing, and most are interactive as well.  The museum is well laid out, taking you through the history of racial tension in America from the beginning.  It does take quite a while to make it through the entirety of the museum and the boarding house across the street, which focuses on the life and motives of James Earl Ray.  Plan to spend at least two hours here.
    Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, TN 2
  4. Stax Museum of American Soul Music: It is no secret that I’m a big fan of soul music, so it shouldn’t be a surprise that I instantly fell in love with this museum. The history of Stax Records is so rich, and the musicians connected with the company are too many to name (again, to mention a few: Isaac Hayes, Otis Redding, Booker T and The MG’s…).  The flow of the museum starts with a short film, and then moves through the exhibits, which range from the influence of Gospel Music in Soul to a video of Chaka Khan singing on Soul Train to Isaac Hayes’s custom gold Cadillac.  The old recording studio is still intact, along with the original mixing console, and is preserved for your viewing pleasure.  It really is worth it to check Stax out, I promise you’ll be glad that you did. (Entrance fee is $13.)
    Otherlands Coffee Bar, Memphis, TN
  5. Mid-Town: I really wish we could have spent more time in this hip slice of Memphis. We had two great meals in this neighborhood: breakfast at Otherlands Coffee Bar, and lunch at The Beauty Shop.  Both restaurants were a joy to be at, and both meals were phenomenal.  We walked past cute shops and boutiques in this area and I really regret not exploring it more.  We also heard from a couple of Memphis locals that this is the place to be for unique bars and restaurants away from downtown.  Unfortunately for us, we received this advice too late in our trip.  Oh well, all the more reason to go back, right?

If you’ve been to Memphis, what was your favorite place to visit? If you haven’t, what would be on your checklist to see there?

Memphis, Tennessee

Walkin’ in Memphis: Part 2

Walkin’ in Memphis: Part 2
Otherlands Coffee Bar, Memphis, TN

On our last full day in Memphis, we got an early start due to our lengthy to-do list for the day.  We started at Otherlands Coffee Bar, in Midtown.  I had a latte and their “Best in the
Cinnamon Toast in the South”.  The sun-filled coffee bar was the perfect place to get caffeinated and make a plan for the day.  The coffee and toast were great, and the atmosphere was even better.  They had unique artwork on the walls, mismatched tables and chairs and board games on the shelves.  It was my kind of place.

Otherlands Coffee Shop, Memphis, TNOtherlands Coffee Bar, Memphis, TN

After breakfast, we drove to Graceland, which we both had mixed feelings about.  We paid $10.00 to park and went in to Graceland, Memphis, TN 2check out the ticket situation.  The cheapest tour was $36 a person and the prices went up to $72 a person for the VIP tour.  I read somewhere online that you could go up to the gate and peak at the mansion for free, but they shot that idea down real quick.  The woman at the guest relations Graceland, Memphis, TNcounter told us that we were only allowed to do that from 7:30am to 8:30am.  So we didn’t see the house.  But! We did look around the overpriced gift shops for a bit.  The area was starting to get crowded with tourists, so we bypassed the additional Elvis Museums and themed diners and moved on.Graceland, Memphis, TN 3Graceland, Memphis, TN 4Our next stop was The Stax Museum of American Soul Music.  Admission was $13 and the tour started with a 20 minute film on the history of the recording studio.
Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, TNThe museum itself was filled with artifacts from soul music superstars like Otis Redding, Isaac Hayes, Aretha Franklin, Booker T and The MGs, Carla Thomas, and many more.  Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, TN 3The old recording equipment was preserved and in the same studio they used to record the greats.  The number of artists and albums associated with Stax Records is staggering, and you can feel the full affect of it as you walk through the hall lined with all such records.  You exit through the gift shop, I’m a sucker for a good gift shop, and this one’s filled with unique gifts, records and miscellaneous music memorabilia.  The museum is definitely a must-see in Memphis.
Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, TN 4Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, TN 5Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, TN 6We went to back to Midtown to The Beauty Shop for lunch.  The hip restaurant used to be a beauty parlor (pretty obvious) and held onto the dryer chairs which they recycled into seats at the dining tables.  The food was out-of-control good.  We had the lemon zest olives to start and then I had the BLTA and Mike had the Salmon Gravalax sandwich, both of which came with homemade chips.  We both completely devoured our lunches.  The staff were wonderful, and happy to suggest any of their many delicious offerings if you’re having trouble deciding.
The Beauty Shop, Memphis, TN 2The Beauty Shop, Memphis, TNThe Beauty Shop Lunch

The Beauty Shop, Memphis, TN 3

Afterwards, we drove to the National Civil Rights Museum, at the Lorraine Motel.  The museum is set at the motel, where Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated, and occupies the building across the street as well.
Lorraine Motel National Civil Rights, Memphis, TNThe entry fee is $15.00.  It was a very emotional experience, being there, as well as being very educational.  It is a lot of information to take in, so be sure to set aside enough time to fully appreciate it.  Each exhibit is beautifully made and mostly interactive.
Lorraine Motel National Civil Rights, Memphis, TN 2We walked down Main Street afterwards, and stopped into Bluff City Coffee.  We took the well-made beverages to go so we could wander around a bit more.  We popped into Red Velvet, a great shop filled with vintage and vintage inspired clothing and accessories.  The woman manning the store was amazing and gave us a ton of great suggestions on bars and shops to check out.  Across the street, we went into a thrift store called The Broken Arrow that was very cool.
Broken Arrow Thrift Store, Memphis, TNIt had an eclectic collection of goods ranging from teacups to CCR albums to cowboy boots.  We checked into our new hotel, The Sheraton (thank you, Mike!) and decided to go jump into the pool.  We had it to ourselves, so we swam around for a while before going back to the room to get ready for our last night out on the town.  Our first stop was The Peabody Hotel to have a Jack Daniels cocktail in their Corner Bar.

The Peabody, Memphis, TN 4The Peabody, Memphis, TN 3

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I had the Presbyterian, which was basically a whiskey ginger, but with delicious single barrel Jack.  The Peabody is regal inside and reminded me of The Drake back in Chicago.

The Peabody, Memphis, TN 2We went to Charlie Vergos’ Rendezvous for dinner, which was just across the street and down an alley from The Peabody.  We got seated right away in their main dining room.  We started with the sausage and cheese plate, which seemed to be a staple on menus in Memphis.  It was served with a heap of saltine crackers and it was AMAZING.
Charlie Vergos' Rendezvous, Memphis, TNFor our entrees, I had the beef brisket and Mike had the pork ribs, both served with beans and cole slaw.  We sat in silence as we ate, attacking everything on our plates and sneaking bites of each other’s food without asking.  The meal was so good, we had to sit there for a minute after to get ourselves out of the food coma.
Charlie Vergos' Rendezvous, Memphis, TN 2After dinner, we went to the Absinthe Room above King’s Palace Café.  While Mike partook in the namesake drink, I Beale Street, Memphis, TNordered a gin and tonic.  Just the smell of the absinthe (black licorice) made me feel sick to my stomach.  It was more of a dive bar, with three pool tables, each in their own little room.  There was a jukebox in the bar that the patrons kept playing The Eagles on, and a couple at the bar that paid for their drinks all in quarters.  It was an interesting and lively crowd that we enjoyed being a part of, even if it was only for the one drink.
Wet Willie's, Memphis, TN

Wet Willie's, Memphis, TNWhen we finished our drinks, we went to Wet Willie’s to sample their boozy slushies.  The slushies were just alright, but the two man band that was performing while we drank them was fantastic.  We had planned to take our mediocre slushies and walk, but changed our minds when they started playing.  From there we went to BB King’s to pay tribute to the blues legend with a beer.  They had a soul cover band playing and everybody danced.
BB Kings on Beale Street, Memphis, TNFrom that point on, things became a little hazy.  I know we had a few more drinks, and I know we made a stop into a couple of souvenir shops and bought a few things that we didn’t really need (I’m looking at you, Elvis clock!).
Tater Red's on Beale StreetElvis Clock

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And then the inevitable happened.  We heard karaoke singing coming out of Flynn’s
Restaurant and wandered in.  Somehow I wound up on stage Mike Singing Karaoke at Flynn's
singing Sam Cooke (“Another Saturday Night
”) and doing the twist.  After the song ended, I promptly tripped and fell off the stage and onto the floor.  Mike rushed to scoop me up, he’s used to my clumsiness, and we were about to make a quick exit, when his name was called to sing.  He did his best Elvis impression as he sang “Hound Dog” and I hid in our booth hoping everyone was too busy ignoring my bad singing to see me fall.  We called it a night after that, and stumbled back to the hotel.
Beale Street, Memphis, TN 5Before we left the next day, we stopped at Blues City Café for lunch.  I had some scrumptious chicken fingers and Mike had the catfish.  It was a good last meal in Memphis where we had so many other great meals, listened to some amazing music and were lucky enough to get a glimpse into the rich history of this musically- inclined city.
Memphis, TN Soul

Thanks for having us, Memphis!

Memphis, Tennessee

Walkin’ in Memphis, TN: Part 2

On our last full day in Memphis, we got an early start due to our lengthy to-do list for the day.  We started at Otherlands Coffee Bar, in Midtown.  I had a latte and their “Best Cinnamon Toast in the South”.  The sun-filled coffee bar was the perfect place to get caffeinated and make a plan for the day.  The coffee and toast were great, and the atmosphere was even better.  They had unique artwork on the walls, mismatched tables and chairs and board games on the shelves.  It was my kind of place.
Otherlands Coffee Bar, Memphis, TennesseeAfter breakfast, we drove to Graceland, which we both had mixed feelings about.  We paid $10.00 to park and went in to
check out the ticket situation.  The cheapest tour was $36 a person and the prices went up to $72 a person for the VIP tour.  I read somewhere online that you could go up to the gate and peak at the mansion for free, but they shot that idea down real quick.  The woman at the guest relations counter told us that we were only allowed to do that from 7:30am to 8:30am.  So we didn’t see the house.  But! We did look around the overpriced gift shops for a bit.  The area was starting to get crowded with tourists, so we bypassed the additional Elvis Museums and themed diners and moved on.
Graceland, Memphis, TennesseeGraceland, Memphis, TennesseeOur next stop was The Stax Museum of American Soul Music.  Admission was $13 and the tour started with a 20 minute film on the history of the recording studio.
Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, TennesseeThe museum itself was filled with artifacts from soul music superstars like Otis Redding, Isaac Hayes, Aretha Franklin, Booker T and The MGs, Carla Thomas, and many more.  The old recording equipment was preserved and in the same studio they used to record the greats.  The number of artists and albums associated with Stax Records is staggering, and you can feel the full affect of it as you walk through the hall lined with all such records.  You exit through the gift shop, I’m a sucker for a good gift shop, and this one’s filled with unique gifts, records and miscellaneous music memorabilia.  The museum is definitely a must-see in Memphis.
Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, Tennessee

Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, Tennessee

Stax Museum of American Soul Music, Memphis, TennesseeWe went to back to Midtown to The Beauty Shop for lunch.  The hip restaurant used to be a beauty parlor (pretty obvious) and held onto the dryer chairs which they recycled into seats at the dining tables.  The food was out-of-control good.  We had the lemon zest olives to start and then I had the BLTA and Mike had the Salmon Gravalax sandwich, both of which came with homemade chips.  We both completely devoured our lunches.  The staff were wonderful, and happy to suggest any of their many delicious offerings if you’re having trouble deciding.

The Beauty Shop, Memphis, Tennessee
The Beauty Shop, Memphis, TennesseeAfterwards, we drove to the National Civil Rights Museum, at the Lorraine Motel.  The museum is set at the motel, where Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated, and occupies the building across the street as well.
Lorraine Motel, National Civil Rights Museum, Memphis, TennesseeThe entry fee is $15.00.  It was a very emotional experience, being there, as well as being very educational.  It is a lot of information to take in, so be sure to set aside enough time to fully appreciate it.  Each exhibit is beautifully made and mostly interactive.
National Civil Rights Museum, Memphis, TennesseeWe walked down Main Street afterwards, and stopped into Bluff City Coffee.  We took the well-made beverages to go so we could wander around a bit more.  We popped into Red Velvet, a great shop filled with vintage and vintage inspired clothing and accessories.  The woman manning the store was amazing and gave us a ton of great suggestions on bars and shops to check out.  Across the street, we went into a thrift store called The Broken Arrow that was very cool.
Broken Arrow Thrift Store, Memphis, TennesseeIt had an eclectic collection of goods ranging from teacups to CCR albums to cowboy boots.  We checked into our new hotel, The Sheraton (thank you, Mike!) and decided to go jump into the pool.  We had it to ourselves, so we swam around for a while before going back to the room to get ready for our last night out on the town.  Our first stop was The Peabody Hotel to have a Jack Daniels cocktail in their Corner Bar.

The Peabody Hotel, Cocktails, Memphis, Tennessee

I had the Presbyterian, which was basically a whiskey ginger, but with delicious single barrel Jack.  The Peabody is regal inside and reminded me of The Drake back in Chicago.

The Peabody, Memphis, TennesseeWe went to Charlie Vergos’ Rendezvous for dinner, which was just across the street and down an alley from The Peabody.  We got seated right away in their main dining room.  We started with the sausage and cheese plate, which seemed to be a staple on menus in Memphis.  It was served with a heap of saltine crackers and it was AMAZING.
Charlie Vergos' Rendezvous, Barbecue, Memphis, TennesseeFor our entrees, I had the beef brisket and Mike had the pork ribs, both served with beans and cole slaw.  We sat in silence as we ate, attacking everything on our plates and sneaking bites of each other’s food without asking.  The meal was so good, we had to sit there for a minute after to get ourselves out of the food coma.
Charlie Vergos, Memphis, TennesseeAfter dinner, we went to the Absinthe Room above King’s Palace Café.  While Mike partook in the namesake drink, I ordered a gin and tonic.  Just the smell of the absinthe (black licorice) made me feel sick to my stomach.  It was more of a dive bar, with three pool tables, each in their own little room.  There was a jukebox in the bar that the patrons kept playing The Eagles on, and a couple at the bar that paid for their drinks all in quarters.  It was an interesting and lively crowd that we enjoyed being a part of, even if it was only for the one drink.
Beale Street, Memphis, TennesseeWhen we finished our drinks, we went to Wet Willie’s to sample their boozy slushies.  The slushies were just alright, but the two man band that was performing while we drank them was fantastic.  We had planned to take our mediocre slushies and walk, but changed our minds when they started playing.  From there we went to BB King’s to pay tribute to the blues legend with a beer.  They had a soul cover band playing and everybody danced.
BB Kings, Beale Street, Memphis, TennesseeFrom that point on, things became a little hazy.  I know we had a few more drinks, and I know we made a stop into a couple of souvenir shops and bought a few things that we didn’t really need (I’m looking at you, Elvis clock!).

Souvenirs, Memphis, Tennessee
And then the inevitable happened.  We heard karaoke singing coming out of Flynn’s Flynn's Karaoke, Memphis, TennesseeRestaurant and wandered in.  Somehow I wound up onstage singing Sam Cooke (“Another Saturday Night ”) and doing the twist.  After the song ended, I promptly tripped and fell off the stage and onto the floor.  Mike rushed to scoop me up, he’s used to my clumsiness, and we were about to make a quick exit, when his name was called to sing.  He did his best Elvis impression as he sang “Hound Dog” and I hid in our booth hoping everyone was too busy ignoring my bad singing to see me fall.  We called it a night after that, and stumbled back to the hotel.
Before we left the next day, we stopped at Blues City Café for lunch.  I had some scrumptious chicken fingers and Mike had the catfish.  It was a good last meal in Memphis where we had so many other great meals, listened to some amazing music and were lucky enough to get a glimpse into the rich history of this musically- inclined city.

Beale Street, Memphis, Tennessee

Memphis, Tennessee

Thanks for having us, Memphis!

Mud Island, Memphis, Tennessee

Walkin’ in Memphis, TN: Part 1

We left bright and early last Wednesday, with the car loaded up and plenty of coffee to keep us going.  The drive to Memphis, TN took us eight hours.  We passed small brush fires as we drove through Southern Illinois.  Some were small and would probably put themselves out, but some we passed were scary big and had firetrucks rushing toward them.
Road Trip, Memphis, Tennessee
I had never seen anything like it, the smoke was clouding up both sides of the highway.  As we approached Memphis, we passed over the Mississippi River, with the huge glass pyramid Bass Pro Shop looming to our left.  When we reached our hotel, we checked into our room, only to discover we were put into a room with double beds.  This was one of the few reasons I was a little underwhelmed with the hotel.  But, that’s what you get when you book budget I guess! We took solace in the fact that it was simply a place to sleep and we wouldn’t be spending much time there.  Mike and I headed out to explore pretty quickly after checking in.  We could see the river from right outside our hotel, and we passed some beautiful buildings and parks on our way to Main Street.

Mud Island, Memphis, Tennessee

We had dinner at The Majestic Grille, a restaurant fashioned to look like an outdoor movie theater with palm trees and twinkly lights.
Sabrina (the original with Audrey Hepburn and Humphrey Bogart) played in the background as we waited 20 minutes for our beers to arrive.  However, the trouble was soon forgotten when they brought over a basket of delicious, homemade bread.  Our entrees were equally delicious.  I had a grilled artichoke flatbread and Mike had a burger.  After dinner, it was show time!  We walked to the FedEx Forum, just off of Beale Street to enjoy the whole reason we were in Memphis in the first place: The Foo Fighters.  Gary Clark Jr. opened and was fantastic.  If you’ve never treated your ears to this man, you need to look him up immediately.  The main event exceeded expectations.
Foo Fighters, FedEx Forum, Memphis, TennesseeThey played a good mix of old and new tunes, and even did a couple covers.  Halfway through, Dave Grohl invited an old Battle of the Bands foe to join him on stage, and they sang “Under Pressure”.

Foo Fighters, FedEx Forum, Memphis, TennesseeEarlier in the year, Mr. Grohl broke his leg, but instead of cancelling the tour, he had an amazing Rock ’n’ Roll throne made to play from.  It was adorned with guitar necks and strobe lights, and had the Foo Fighter Logo emblazoned on the chair back.  After the show, we hopped back over to Beale Street for some cheap drinks and Blues.
Beale Street, Memphis, Tennessee
Beale Street, Memphis, TennesseeWe went to Club 152, enchanted by the music coming from inside and happy about the no cover.  After a while, we called it a night and wandered back to the hotel.  The next morning, we went down to enjoy our free breakfast only to discover that it had already closed… at 9am.  What?? So we walked over to Café Keough on Main Street for some coffee.
Mud Island, Memphis, TennesseeWhile the service wasn’t full of Southern Hospitality, the café was gorgeous, their menu was unique and my latte was superb.  We walked through Memphis Park and over to the pedestrian walkway bridge that leads to Mud Island.
Coffee on the River Walk, Memphis, TN
To go over to the island by foot is free, but the trolley and the tour are not.  The island featured a Mississippi River museum ($10 for entry), a park, paddleboats, cafes, and a topographically accurate replica of the river from start to finish.  The views from Mud Island were spectacular.
Mud Island, Memphis, TennesseeAfter we got our fill, we walked back to the mainland and over to Beale Street.  We popped into some of the stores and sized up the bars for later.  The whole scene was reminiscent of a mini Bourbon Street in NOLA (check out the New Orleans blog here).  We went into the Gibson Factory to take a look around. Unfortunately all of the tours were sold out or cancelled, so Mike had to settle for drooling over the guitars in the gift shop.  We went to the Rum Boogie Café for lunch, and it was my first Memphis barbecue experience.

Rum Boogie Restaurant, Memphis, Tennessee

I had BBQ pork with cole slaw and fried okra and Mike had a BLT with fried green tomatoes.  Afterwards, we walked through some questionable territory to get to Sun Studios.  A cab may have been a better choice, but it was definitely worth it.  Sun Studios is a Memphis legend, it was the first studio to record Elvis Presley and was responsible for recording the first rock ‘n’ roll song “Rocket 88”.
Sun Studios, Memphis, TennesseeMany amazing artists have walked through their doors, including: Howlin Wolf, Carl Perkins, Jerry Lee Lewis, Johnny Cash, and many more.  The tour of the studio was $13, and worth every penny.

Sun Studios, Memphis, Tennessee
Sun Studios, Memphis, TennesseeOur tour guide was knowledgeable and charismatic and punctuated each music fun fact with a song that was recorded in the studio.  In the same building is a café and gift shop which was fun to browse.
Sun Studios, Memphis, TennesseeLater that evening, we went to Flight Wine Bar for dinner.  We each got a wine flight with dinner, I had the Sibling Rivalry, all white wines.  For dinner we got a few small plates to share, including: veal scallopini, chicken and waffles, and shrimp and grits.  The food was so flavorful and had me wishing we had ordered more than small plates.
Flight Wine Bar, Memphis, Tennessee

Flight Wine Bar, Memphis, Tennessee

After dinner, we walked back to Beale Street and sat down at King’s Palace Café Blues Patio to listen to some good music and enjoy a Beale Big Ass Beer.

Beale Street, Memphis, TennesseeVenturing a little further down Beale Street, we ended up at Jerry Lee Lewis’s Café for a night cap.  There was an amazing rockabilly band playing when we arrived, called Smooth and the Bully Boys.
Jerry Lee Lewis Cafe, Memphis TennesseeJerry Lee Lewis Cafe, Memphis, TennesseeWe sat by the window and waited for a waitress that never came.  When we went to the bar to get a drink, we were told we would just have to keep waiting at the table.  We didn’t mind waiting because the music was so good, but it did take an awfully long time for two measly drinks.  After the band finished, we ended our night back at the hotel with a game of rummy and a bottle of wine.

Memphis, Tennessee
To Be Continued…

Mud Island, Memphis, Tennessee

Walkin’ in Memphis: Part 1

Walkin’ in Memphis: Part 1
Memphis, TN Sign

We left bright and early last Wednesday, with the car loaded up and plenty of coffee to keep us going.  The drive to Memphis took us eight hours.  We passed small Road Trip to Memphis 3brush fires as we drove through Southern Illinois.  Some were small and would probably put themselves out, but some we passed were scary big and had firetrucks rushing toward them.  I had never seen anything like it, the smoke was clouding up both sides of the highway.  As we approached Memphis, we passed over the Mississippi River, with the huge glass pyramid Bass Pro Shop looming to our left.  When we reached our hotel, we checked into our room, only to Mud Island, Memphis, TN 5discover we were put into a room with double beds.  This was one of the few reasons I was a little underwhelmed with the hotel.  But, that’s what you get when you book budget I guess! We took solace in the fact that it was simply a place to sleep and we wouldn’t be spending much time there.  Mike and I headed out to explore pretty quickly after checking in.  We could see the river from right outside our hotel, and we passed some beautiful buildings and parks on our way to Main Street.  We had dinner at The Majestic Grille, a restaurant fashioned to look like an outdoor movie theater with palm trees and twinkly lights.
The Majestic Grille, Memphis, TNSabrina (the original with Audrey Hepburn and Humphrey Bogart) played in the background as we waited 20 minutes for our beers to arrive.  However, the trouble was soon The Majestic Grille, Memphis, TN 2forgotten when they brought over a basket of delicious,
homemade bread.  Our entrees were equally delicious.  I had a grilled artichoke flatbread and Mike had a burger.  After dinner, it was show time!  We walked to the FedEx Forum, just off of Beale Street to enjoy the whole reason we were in Memphis in the first place: The Foo Fighters.  Gary Clark Jr. opened and was fantastic.  If you’ve never treated your ears to this man, you need to look him up immediately.  The main event exceeded expectations.
Foo Fighters, Memphis, TN 3They played a good mix of old and new tunes, and even did a couple covers.  Halfway through, Dave Grohl invited an old Battle of the Bands foe to join him on stage, and they sang “Under Pressure”.
Foo Fighters, Memphis, TNFoo Fighters, Memphis, TN 4

Earlier in the year, Mr. Grohl broke his leg, but instead of cancelling the tour, he had an amazing Rock ’n’ Roll throne made to play from.  It was adorned with guitar necks and strobe lights, and had the Foo Fighter Logo emblazoned on the chair back.  After the show, we hopped back over to Beale Street for some cheap drinks and Blues.

Beale Street, Memphis, TNBeale Street, Memphis, TN 3We went to Club 152, enchanted by the music coming from inside and happy about the no cover.  After a while, we called it a night and wandered back to the hotel.  The next morning, we went down to enjoy our free breakfast only to discover that it had already closed… at 9am.  What?? So we walked over to Café Keough on Main Street for some coffee.
Coffee on the River Walk, Memphis, TNWhile the service wasn’t full of Southern Hospitality, the café was gorgeous, their menu was unique and my latte was superb.  We walked through Memphis Park and over to the pedestrian walkway bridge that leads to Mud Island.
Mud Island, Memphis, TNMud Island, Memphis, TN 8

To go over to the island by foot is free, but the trolley and the tour are not.  The island featured a Mississippi River museum ($10 for entry), a park, paddleboats, cafes, and a topographically accurate replica of the river from start to finish.  The views from Mud Island were spectacular.
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After we got our fill, we walked back to the mainland and over to Beale Street.  We popped into some of the stores and sized up the bars for later.  The whole scene was reminiscentGibson Factory, Memphis, TN of a mini Bourbon Street in NOLA (check out the New Orleans blog here).  We went into the Gibson Factory to take a look around. Unfortunately all of the tours were sold out or cancelled, so Mike had to settle for drooling Rum Boogie Memphis, TN 2over the guitars in the gift shop.  We went to the
Rum Boogie Café for lunch, and it was my first Memphis
barbecue experience.  I had BBQ pork with cole slaw and fried okra and Mike had a BLT with fried green tomatoes.  Afterwards, we walked through some questionable territory to get to Sun Studios.  A cab may have been a better choice, but it was definitely worth it.  Sun Studios is a Memphis legend, it was the first studio to record Elvis Presley and was responsible for recording the first rock ‘n’ roll song “Rocket 88”.
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Many amazing artists have walked through their doors, including: Howlin Wolf, Carl Perkins, Jerry Lee Lewis, Johnny Cash, and many more.  The tour of the studio was $13, and worth every penny.

Sun Studios, Memphis, TNSun Studios, Memphis, TN 4Our tour guide was knowledgeable and charismatic and punctuated each music fun fact with a song that was recorded in the studio.  In the same building is a café and gift shop which was fun to browse.
Tour Guide at Sun Studios in Memphis, TNLater that evening, we went to Flight Wine Bar for dinner.  We each got a wine flight with dinner, I had the Sibling Rivalry, all white wines.  For dinner we got a few small plates to share, including: veal scallopini, chicken and waffles, and shrimp and grits.  The food was so flavorful and had me wishing we had ordered more than small plates.
Flight Wine Bar, Memphis, TNDinner at Flight in Memphis, TNAfter dinner, we walked back to Beale Street and sat down at King’s Palace Café Blues Patio to listen to some good music and enjoy a Beale Big Ass Beer.
Beale Street, Memphis, TN 2Beale Big Ass Beer, Memphis, TN

Venturing a little further down Beale Street, we ended up at Jerry Lee Lewis’s Café for a night cap.  There was an amazing rockabilly band playing when we arrived, called Smooth and the Bully Boys.
Jerry Lee Lewis's Cafe, Memphis, TNJerry Lee Lewis's Cafe, Memphis, TN 2We sat by the window and waited for a waitress that never came.  When we went to the bar to get a drink, we were told we would just have to keep waiting at the table.  We didn’t mind waiting because the music was so good, but it did take an awfully long time for two measly drinks.  After the band finished, we ended our night back at the hotel with a game of rummy and a bottle of wine.

Memphis, TN To Be Continued…

Miami Beach, A Memoir | RebeccaWanderlusting

Miami Beach: A Memoir

Oh, Miami… I wish I would have done right by you.  I briefly mentioned in a previous blog (The Eternal Optimist), how my trip to Miami Beach was solo-travel before I really knew how to solo-travel properly.  It was a timid attempt at independence.  The trip wasn’t a complete disaster; I did enjoy my time in there, but the problem is that it could have been so much more.  The silver lining is that I certainly learned a few travel lessons from this particular adventure.
Miami Beach, FLI’ll start from the beginning:

Two years ago, I was working in a spa as a front desk supervisor.  I was stressed and in desperate need of a break.  One of my coworkers had just gone on a solo trip somewhere tropical and was raving about how nice it was to just hang out on the beach all day.  I was sold.  For the next few weeks after, I researched where I could go within my budget.  After much deliberation and research, I landed on Miami Beach, FL.  I flew out of O’Hare and landed in Miami in the evening, where I took a hotel shuttle to Newport Beachside Hotel & Resort.  The hotel was technically in Sunny Isles Beach, FL, which is just North of Miami Beach.  This was my first mistake.  I was pretty far away from the action in Miami Beach and South Beach; it was a 45 minute bus ride between the two.
Sunset, Sunny Isles Beach, FLWhen I arrived at the hotel, I was hungry from a day full of travel, so I hunkered down in the hotel room and ordered room service for dinner.  I got coconut shrimp and fries, which I enjoyed in my PJs from the comfort of the queen-sized bed in my room.  When I finished the food, I was instructed to place the tray outside the door, where it would be picked up.  I took the tray outside, while the door to my room abruptly closed behind me, locking me out.  I had to walk to the front desk for a new key in my teeny tiny pajama shorts and tank top, my face flushed with embarrassment.  The front desk staff were nice enough to act like it happened all the time, but I scurried back to my room with my head down.  Once I was in, I decided to call it a night.
Newport Beachside Hotel and Resort in Sunny Isles Beach, FLThe next day, I woke up early and enjoyed a cup of coffee out on the pool deck.  It was shaping up to be a beautiful day, and I was quick to get into my swimsuit and sit out on the beach.  What I was most wanting from this vacation was to lay out in the sun, read, and sip cocktails.  I certainly accomplished that, but not much else.  Also on the first day in Miami, I did indeed take the bus to Miami Beach, where I walked around aimlessly for a couple of hours.
Miami Beach, FLThe main drag is Collins Avenue, where I popped in and out of the same stores I could find in Chicago.  I also wandered over to Espanola Way, a twinkling light filled cultural hub full of great restaurants. I chose Oh Mexico Restaurant for dinner for its al fresco dining.  After ordering myself a mango margarita and an entrée that I can’t remember, I snacked on the chips Mango Margarita from OH Mexico in Miami Beach, FLand salsa that were on the table.  Right off the bat, I started coughing in full force due to swallowing a large bit of chip whole.  My eyes were watering, my hands had the table in a death grip, and I could see the waiter in my peripheral, deciding whether or not I needed the Heimlich.  Once I got myself under control, my eyes continued to water as I ate my meal.  I desperately hoped that no one around me thought I was some sad girl eating dinner by herself, but could sense some pity coming at me.  Needless to say, I paid my bill and got out of there as soon as I finished eating (food first, always).  I went off in search of a bar to prove to the Miami citizens that I knew how to behave properly in public.
Espanola Way in Miami Beach, FLIt was twilight by the time I made my way towards a wine bar I had spotted earlier.  I walked down a side street, turned a corner and found myself walking down a scarcely populated sidewalk.  Coming towards me was a tall, scraggly man, swaying a little as he walked.  The sight made me want to cross the street and find a new destination.  I told myself to keep walking confidently onward, that I was being paranoid, but as he approached his eyes locked onto me.  As we passed each other, he lurched towards me.  Whether it was deliberate or not, I don’t know; I dodged him and speed walked away.  I high-tailed it to the bus stop, where I frantically called my friend.  “I just got attacked!” I squeaked.  Though this wasn’t the case, I still worked myself into a frenzy over what had just transpired.  I bussed back to the hotel and stopped into the hotel bar to calm my over-dramatically frayed nerves. There, I met an older gentleman who I chatted with throughout the rest of the evening.  He had hinted at meeting up the next day, which is when I worked into the conversation that I was in Miami with my mom, who was upstairs sleeping in our shared room.  This, of course, was untrue, but I clung to the lie like a safety blanket against a clearly harmless and charming man.  Why was I being an overcautious jerk, you might ask?  Because I grew up believing there was a stigma that travelling alone as a women could equal danger; such a rookie mistake.  If anything, my travels since then have shown me that many people you meet while traveling are friendly and solidly good.
beachesIn any case, the next day I did not meet up with my new casual acquaintance.  I did, however, get drunk on the beach, on Sex on The Beaches no less.  In the afternoon, I attempted to find a paddle board rental joint that I had sex on the beachheard about from the concierge.  I didn’t find it, in fact, I got a little lost and wound up just going back to the hotel instead of asking for help or hailing a cab.  My misadventure and the fact that my big solo vacation was shaping up to be a little uneventful caused me to have a little pity party in my hotel room.
shoreI got it together eventually, and decided to treat myself to a lobster dinner in the hotel restaurant, Kitchen 305.  As I was sat at my table for one, the waitress came over to take my drink and promptly said “aww, honey is it just you tonight?” Umm, yes, yes it is, and if your goal was to make me order three more drinks than I was going to, mission accomplished.  I ordered my lobster dinner, which also came with a salad and bread and perhaps a side dish.
lobsterWhen the lobster arrived, I stared at it dumbfounded.  It was a whole lobster, which I had never experience before.  Lobster tail, yes. Lobster roll, yes.  A whole lobster…what the heck do you do with it? I took a picture of it and sent it to my dad, an avid seafood lover, with this message “HELP! I don’t know what to do with this! Which part am I supposed to eat?”  I cut into the top of the lobster and green goo flowed out.  I turned my plate around and cut into the tail.  I ate what little meat I could scavenge from the little guy and then filled up on bread.  I left a big tip and walked out of the restaurant feeling a little bit defeated.  It was my last night in Miami, and I spent the rest of it drinking PBR and brooding by myself on the pool deck.
PBRThe next morning, I woke up early to catch the sunrise.  I walked along the beach, taking pictures, and I noticed what seemed to be ocean wildlife washed up all along the shore.  The majority of the creatures looked like clear, blue empanadas with tentacles.  One of the men cleaning up the shore line in front of the hotel told me not to touch them, they were Portuguese Man of War.  They were closing the beaches to swimmers that day due to an overabundance of these little death empanadas.  That was my queue to head back to Chicago.  I took another airport shuttle back  to Miami International Airport, where I was delayed for three hours before finally making it back home.
ManOWarI was a little bit ashamed of this trip for a while afterwards.  I felt like I should have made more out of this trip, should have explored more, should have ventured out more fearlessly.  Retelling the story now, I see that a big part of the problem was attitude.  I was too easily overcome by any obstacle that I faced.  Now I know better.  But, I still feel a little bit of a pull back to Miami, to redeem myself for my previous lackluster visit.
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Miami Beach, A Memoir | RebeccaWanderlusting

Miami: A Memoir

Miami: A Memoir

Miami Beach, FLOh, Miami… I wish I would have done right by you.  I briefly mentioned in a previous blog (“The Eternal Optimist”), how my trip to Miami was solo-travel before I really knew how to solo-travel properly.  It was a timid attempt at independence.  The trip wasn’t a complete disaster; I did enjoy my time in there, but the problem is that it could have been so much more.  The silver lining is that I certainly learned a few travel lessons from this particular adventure.

I’ll start from the beginning:

Two years ago, I was working in a spa as a front desk supervisor.  I was stressed and in desperate need of a break.  One of my coworkers had just gone on a solo trip somewhere tropical and was raving about how nice it was to just hang out on the beach all day.  I was sold.  For the next few weeks after, I researched where I could go within my budget.  After much deliberation and research, I landed on Miami Beach, FL.  I flew out of O’Hare and landed in Miami in the evening, where I took a hotel shuttle to Newport Beachside Hotel & Resort.  The hotel was technically in Sunny Isles Beach, FL, which is just North of Miami Beach.  This was my first mistake.  I was pretty far away from the action in Miami Beach and South Beach; it was a 45 minute bus ride between the two.
Sunset, Sunny Isles Beach, FLWhen I arrived at the hotel, I was hungry from a day full of travel, so I hunkered down in the hotel room and ordered room service for dinner.  I got coconut shrimp and fries, which I enjoyed in my PJs from the comfort of the queen-sized bed in my room.  When I finished the food, I was instructed to place the tray outside the door, where it would be picked up.  I took the tray outside, while the door to my room abruptly closed behind me, locking me out.  I had to walk to the front desk for a new key in my teeny tiny pajama shorts and tank top, my face flushed with embarrassment.  The front desk staff were nice enough to act like it happened all the time, but I scurried back to my room with my head down.  Once I was in, I decided to call it a night.
Newport Beachside Hotel and Resort in Sunny Isles Beach, FLThe next day, I woke up early and enjoyed a cup of coffee out on the pool deck.  It was shaping up to be a beautiful day, and I was quick to get into my swimsuit and sit out on the beach.  What I was most wanting from this vacation was to lay out in the sun, read, and sip cocktails.  I certainly accomplished that, but not much else.  Also on the first day in Miami, I did indeed take the bus to Miami Beach, where I walked around aimlessly for a couple of hours.
Miami Beach, FLThe main drag is Collins Avenue, where I popped in and out of the same stores I could find in Chicago.  I also wandered over to Espanola Way, a twinkling light filled cultural hub full of great restaurants. I chose Oh Mexico Restaurant for dinner for its al fresco dining.  After ordering myself a mango margarita and an entrée that I can’t remember, I snacked on the chips Mango Margarita from OH Mexico in Miami Beach, FLand salsa that were on the table.  Right off the bat, I started coughing in full force due to swallowing a large bit of chip whole.  My eyes were watering, my hands had the table in a death grip, and I could see the waiter in my peripheral, deciding whether or not I needed the Heimlich.  Once I got myself under control, my eyes continued to water as I ate my meal.  I desperately hoped that no one around me thought I was some sad girl eating dinner by herself, but could sense some pity coming at me.  Needless to say, I paid my bill and got out of there as soon as I finished eating (food first, always).  I went off in search of a bar to prove to the Miami citizens that I knew how to behave properly in public.
Espanola Way in Miami Beach, FLIt was twilight by the time I made my way towards a wine bar I had spotted earlier.  I walked down a side street, turned a corner and found myself walking down a scarcely populated sidewalk.  Coming towards me was a tall, scraggly man, swaying a little as he walked.  The sight made me want to cross the street and find a new destination.  I told myself to keep walking confidently onward, that I was being paranoid, but as he approached his eyes locked onto me.  As we passed each other, he lurched towards me.  Whether it was deliberate or not, I don’t know; I dodged him and speed walked away.  I high-tailed it to the bus stop, where I frantically called my friend.  “I just got attacked!” I squeaked.  Though this wasn’t the case, I still worked myself into a frenzy over what had just transpired.  I bussed back to the hotel and stopped into the hotel bar to calm my over-dramatically frayed nerves. There, I met an older gentleman who I chatted with throughout the rest of the evening.  He had hinted at meeting up the next day, which is when I worked into the conversation that I was in Miami with my mom, who was upstairs sleeping in our shared room.  This, of course, was untrue, but I clung to the lie like a safety blanket against a clearly harmless and charming man.  Why was I being an overcautious jerk, you might ask?  Because I grew up believing there was a stigma that travelling alone as a women could equal danger; such a rookie mistake.  If anything, my travels since then have shown me that many people you meet while traveling are friendly and solidly good.
beachesIn any case, the next day I did not meet up with my new casual acquaintance.  I did, however, get drunk on the beach, on Sex on The Beaches no less.  In the afternoon, I attempted to find a paddle board rental joint that I had sex on the beachheard about from the concierge.  I didn’t find it, in fact, I got a little lost and wound up just going back to the hotel instead of asking for help or hailing a cab.  My misadventure and the fact that my big solo vacation was shaping up to be a little uneventful caused me to have a little pity party in my hotel room.
shoreI got it together eventually, and decided to treat myself to a lobster dinner in the hotel restaurant, Kitchen 305.  As I was sat at my table for one, the waitress came over to take my drink and promptly said “aww, honey is it just you tonight?” Umm, yes, yes it is, and if your goal was to make me order three more drinks than I was going to, mission accomplished.  I ordered my lobster dinner, which also came with a salad and bread and perhaps a side dish.
lobsterWhen the lobster arrived, I stared at it dumbfounded.  It was a whole lobster, which I had never experience before.  Lobster tail, yes. Lobster roll, yes.  A whole lobster…what the heck do you do with it? I took a picture of it and sent it to my dad, an avid seafood lover, with this message “HELP! I don’t know what to do with this! Which part am I supposed to eat?”  I cut into the top of the lobster and green goo flowed out.  I turned my plate around and cut into the tail.  I ate what little meat I could scavenge from the little guy and then filled up on bread.  I left a big tip and walked out of the restaurant feeling a little bit defeated.  It was my last night in Miami, and I spent the rest of it drinking PBR and brooding by myself on the pool deck.
PBRThe next morning, I woke up early to catch the sunrise.  I walked along the beach, taking pictures, and I noticed what seemed to be ocean wildlife washed up all along the shore.  The majority of the creatures looked like clear, blue empanadas with tentacles.  One of the men cleaning up the shore line in front of the hotel told me not to touch them, they were Portuguese Man of War.  They were closing the beaches to swimmers that day due to an overabundance of these little death empanadas.  That was my queue to head back to Chicago.  I took another airport shuttle back  to Miami International Airport, where I was delayed for three hours before finally making it back home.
ManOWarI was a little bit ashamed of this trip for a while afterwards.  I felt like I should have made more out of this trip, should have explored more, should have ventured out more fearlessly.  Retelling the story now, I see that a big part of the problem was attitude.  I was too easily overcome by any obstacle that I faced.  Now I know better.  But, I still feel a little bit of a pull back to Miami, to redeem myself for my previous lackluster visit.
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Dubuque Weekenders

Dubuque Weekenders

Grand River Center Dubuque, Iowa on the Mississippi River

I have to admit, when I think weekend trip, Iowa is never the first thing that comes to mind.  Yet here we are, in beautiful Dubuque after driving three and half hours from Chicago.  My boyfriend and I had come to the industrial city for a friend’s wedding.  Our first choice of hotel was The Hotel Julien, which had been recommended by my parents who absolutely love Dubuque.  They were unfortunately overbooked, so we ended up having to scramble to find Country Inn, Dubuque, Iowasomething else last minute.  We wound up at The Country Inn and Suites which was tragically far away from the downtown area.  Now let me preface my limited review on this hotel by saying, I am not a hotel snob.  I don’t mind staying at budget hotels and I enjoy staying at hostels, but my first instinct when I walked into our hotel room was to Travel Essential Dubuque, Iowa run directly back to Chicago.  There were stains on the carpet, scuffs on the walls, the bathroom was questionable, the GD curtains were torn! Come on Country Inn, have a little pride!  The room did have a few good points, which included a coffee maker in the room, great water pressure in the shower and an individually wrapped make-up remover towlette, which was a very thoughtful touch.  We beautified ourselves for the wedding and inquired about a taxi service in the area.  The front desk agent handed us a business card and told us it would be about $10 for the ride into downtown.  Wrong.  It was actually double that. BUT it was worth every penny because the cab driver turned out to Wedding in Dubuque, Iowabe our personal concierge.  He gave us tons of advice on where to go out after the wedding, where to go for breakfast the next morning, and the maximum level of intoxication that they would allow at the casino across from the wedding venue.  It was great!  The wedding was at The Grand River Center, which as its name suggests, is right on the Mississippi River.  It had a beautifulMississippi River, Dubuque, Iowa glass wall on the river side, and a stone patio that led out onto the river walk.  We spent the cocktail hour out on that patio just taking in the scenery.  The Mississippi isn’t the prettiest river, but it is really a sight to behold.  The wedding reception was beautiful, as they usually are and we danced and abused the photo booth for a good portion of Wedding Cupcake, Dubuque, Iowathe evening.  Earlier on, we had noticed that there was a brewery next door to the venue that looked like it was having some sort of festival with a live band.  When there was a lull, we decided to walk over and check it out.  And that is how I accidentally crashed a wedding for the first time ever.  (Congratulations Travis and Christy! Sorry we barged in on your festivities!)
Stone Cliff Winery, Dubuque, IowaStone Cliff Winery, Dubuque, Iowa

We toasted the happy couple and tested out their photo booth too before we hightailed it back to our own celebrations.  We danced some more, I didn’t catch the bouquet, and there was late night pizza to be had.
Bridal Table, Dubuque IowaAfter the reception ended, we walked over to the Diamond Joe Casino.  Surprisingly, they let us in and we hit the slots.  I tried my hand at blackjack and won a couple of hands, which I’m sure would have made my grandma very proud.  We ended up losing $30 but I guess that’s what we get for gambling while under the influence.  We decided to take the Train Tracks, Dubuque, Iowa9 minute walk to the main drag, which was on the other side of the highway, over a bridge.  The city looked beautiful.  We walked past the hotel we should have stayed at and I instantly vowed to come back solely to stay there; it was gorgeous and grand.  We walked to a bar called The Broken Lift, which our concierge cab driver had recommended.  It was a music venue/bar in the basement of a restaurant called Vinnie Vanucchi’s.  The Broken Lift occupies a cave-The Busted Lift, Dubuque, Iowalike space with two large rooms and limestone covered walls.  I had a John’s Generations White Ale, which was crisp after drinking so much light beer at the wedding.  They had an enthralling game in the backroom that involved swinging a metal hoop at a hook on the wall that completely
captured our attention until last call.  We cabbed home which took us quite some time because our limited The Busted Lift, Dubuque, Iowaknowledge of the city and drunken rambling led our cab driver to believe our hotel was in the opposite direction than where it actually was.  When we finally made it back to the Country Inn, we tried unsuccessfully to order a late night pizza and then passed out from the effort.  The next morning, we checked out early to explore Dubuque a little more before heading home.  We took another cue from our awesome cabbie took his recommendation for brunch.  All we had written down was Quality Inn, so we plugged it into the GPS and off we went.  I was interested to see if it was the same small motel that I thought it was, and as we climbed the hill to our destination, I realized that it was.  For one moment, I was very mad at our cab driver for leading us astray.  That was until my boyfriend, who is a much better listener than I am, pointed out our actual destination, which shared a parking lot with the motel.
Timmerman's Supper Club, Dubuque, IowaTimmerman’s Supper Club was perched on a bluff which overlooked the river.  The décor and architecture were straight out of the seventies with gold chandeliers and wooden bamboo chairs.  I loved the atmosphere and look of Timmerman's Super Club, Dubuque, Iowathe supper club, but the food on the brunch was just ok.  The buffet with many choices, carving stations, omelet stations, and a slew of baked goods.  The clientele seemed like they had been coming there for years, there was a familiarity to the crowd that was very comfortable.  I would like to revisit Timmerman’s, but maybe for dinner or a fancy supper club drink.  Our next stop was the 4th Street Elevator (or the Fenelon Place Elevator), one of the more historic sites in Dubuque.
4th Street Elevator, Dubuque, IowaIt used to transport folks to and from their houses on top of the hill and their jobs at the bottom, downtown.  We were excited to ride this contraption up and down, however they only took cash and had no ATM so we settled for watching it Dubuque, Iowainstead.  It was only $3.00 roundtrip, and I am kind of bummed we didn’t get a chance to experience it.  Another reason to come back, I suppose.  I needed another coffee before we drove back to Chicago, so we stopped at Monk’s Kaffee Pub on Bluff Street.  It is a coffee bar by day and a bar bar by night.  It was such a cozy space, with a dark wooden bar that spanned the length of the front room and mismatched arm chairs and tables Monks Kaffee Pub, Dubuque, Iowathroughout.  The coffee was good too!  It was such a nice departure from the coffee shops that I am used to.  I would gladly return to enjoy a latte in one of those comfy arm chairs.  Our last stop before heading home was a flea market/farmer’s market we spotted by the train tracks.  It was interesting to say the least.  We parked in the grass and browsed through the card tables and tents.  I saw a lot of clip on earrings and dishes and beer signs.
Flea Market, Dubuque, IowaFlea Market, Dubuque, Iowa
Flea Market, Dubuque, IowaFlea Market, Dubuque, Iowa

We didn’t buy anything but we did get a kick out of looking around.  Dubuque was a quaint little industrial city that I would definitely venture to again.  I feel like there are a few other hidden gems to be discovered and I need to stay at The Hotel Julien at some point in the near future.  Dubuque Weekenders Part Two?? Probably.
Dubuque, Iowa

We took our time driving home, stopping at random scenic overlooks and roadside attractions.  There really is beauty everywhere, if you take the time to look for it.  As Roald Dahl said: “And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely of places.  Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it.”
Elizabeth, IL Farmland, ILErin, IL Farmer's MarketErin, IL Farmers Market

North Carolina Wild

North Carolina Wild

Road Trip to Asheville, NCIf you would have told me before I started this blog that someday I’d be driving solo through the mountains en route to North Carolina, I would have called you a liar for two reasons.  1.) Growing up in Small Town, IL with only rural roads did not turn me into a strong highway driver.  2.) Even now, after completing the drive (there and back again), it still seems like a daunting task.  Despite those facts, I still rented a car and made my way to Asheville, North Carolina on my own.  It was a beautiful drive, and with no real setbacks (minus the time I took a ramp too fast, almost flipping the carSweet Peas Hostel, Asheville, NC in the process).  I had rented a zippy little Kia Rio for the trip and it performed beautifully.  I arrived in Asheville at 6:45pm EST and checked into Sweet Peas Hostel.  The hostel suited my needs perfectly as it was located right in center of the downtown area.  They set me up for my two-night stay with clean towels and bed linens in my private room, complete with double bed, sink, chair and bedside table.  Once I had washed my face and changed from my road trip shirt, I set Street Art, Asheville, NCout to explore.  From what I saw, Asheville is chock-full of unique restaurants and bars, and cute/quirky shops.  Every time I turned a corner, I was sure it would lead to a boring, office-lined street, but was surprised to see yet more shops and restaurants to gawk at.  The sidewalks were dotted with buskers, and there was a lingering smell of Nag Champa and cigars.  I stopped in The Southern for dinner and tried their “famous” Mac n Cheese, Asheville, NCwith a White Zombie Ale (Catawba Brewing Co.) to wash it down.  I made it my personal mission to only drink local beers whilst I was in NC.  The food was good enough to satiate my post long drive hunger and the beer was delicious.  Soon I was back to wandering; there was a lot to take in.  I stopped in to Lexington Avenue Brewery for a 1st Gear Ale (Lexington Avenue Brewery), which was also delicious.  I loved the vibe in the brewery, mostly because the music went from The Temptations, to The White Stripes and then Pixies (all my favorites).  I called it an early night in order to start early the next day.  I woke up sans alarm, and showered in the shared Early Girl Eatery, Asheville, NCbathroom, which was very tidy.  I decided to grab breakfast at the highly recommended Early Girl Eatery.  I was not disappointed.  I had the biscuits and herb gravy with a side of THE BEST BACON I HAVE EVER TASTED.  And I’m somewhat of a bacon connoisseur.  After I finished every last bite, I drove to the Biltmore Estate (less than 10 minutes away from downtown).  The sprawling landscape was accessible after purchasing a $60 day pass, which was a little steep for me, but acceptable due to the beauty of the driveway alone.  I drove along the winding road to one of the many parking lots, and took a shuttle to the mansion.  I had opted out of the audio tour, and followed the sweaty crowd through the gorgeous house.
The Biltmore Estate, Asheville, NCThe pamphlet that was doled out to me with my day pass went in the same order of the rooms, giving brief descriptions of each one.  The tour circled around through The Biltmore Estate, Asheville, NCan indoor garden, multiple dining rooms and salons, the library, the bedrooms and lounges upstairs, and the bowling alley, pool, kitchens and employee rooms in the basement.  Once the inside tour was over, I took it upon myself to tour the gardens outside.  I walked out onto the patio, which gave spectacular views of the mountains.  All of the The Biltmore Estate, Asheville, NCsurrounding gardens had names, like “The Italian Garden”, “The Spring Garden”, “The Azalea Garden” and so on.  I meandered through a few of them, enchanted most by the walled rose garden that gave way to the Conservatory.  I shuttled back to the car and drove towards the Antler Hill Village, where the winery and my free wine tastings called to me.  The The Biltmore Estate, Asheville, NCbrochures recommend spending two days exploring the property and I can absolutely see why.  I passed outdoor activities on all sides as I drove, including kayaking, horseback riding and biking.  I enjoyed my complimentary wine tastings (I tried the White Zinfandel and the Sauvignon Blanc), and browsed the stores in Antler Hill Village.  Once I returned to the hostel, I grabbed my umbrella to protect me from the sudden downpour and set off again.  I found myself at aSHEVille Museum, an interactive Feminist Manifesto.  TheASheVille Museum, Asheville, NC museum featured portraits and stories from women around the world and various exhibits revering women in their accomplishments and denouncing sexism in the name of equality.  I enjoyed the museum and purchased a bracelet from the wonderfully friendly store keeper.  From there, I walked over to the Battery Park Book Exchange, which is in the Grove Arcade.  The Book Exchange is my new favorite bar, ever.  It’s a two-tiered book store with a coffee and booze bar on the first floor.  You can sip your drink and browse the shelves, and even Battery Park Book Exchange, Asheville, NCadd a book to your tab!  The shelves are spread out upstairs and down with little hidden alcoves with table and chair sets to sit and read.  The staff were nice enough to help me pick a dinner spot and recommend other local eateries for later.  The restaurant they spoke the highest of was closed that day, so I wound up at Bouchon, a French Restaurant.  I sat at the bar and ordered Moules Frites a la Paris-Born Redneck (cooked with PBR) with a Pisgah Pale Bouchon Restaurant, Asheville, NCAle (Pisgah Brewing Co.).  So far the Asheville brewed brews were really hitting the mark.  It felt very Parisian, to be sitting at the bar, eating Moules Frites and watching the rain; brooding, because as it turns out, I don’t really enjoy mussels.  I did, however, enjoy the bartender there, who was also from Illinois, and advised me where to hike the next day.  I walked to 5 Walnut after dinner, drawn in by their live music.  The Band, Siamese Jazz Club (with Caromio), was fantastic.  I downed a Mother Trucker Pale Ale (Catawba Asheville, NCBrewing Co.) and enjoyed the happy atmosphere at the bar.  Everyone was jamming to the band and dancing alongside their tables.  From there, I moved on to The Thirsty Monk for a night cap, where I met a nice couple, who I proceeded to give Asheville Tourism advice to.  Drink enough of these local brews and you’ll start to act like one, I guess.  Soon, I was taking my slightly tipsy butt to bed.  The next morning, I went to the famed Tupelo Honey Café for breakfast al fresco.  I had their Tupelo Breakfast Plate, sans eggs and plus a biscuit, and cheese grits and bacon.  The food was excellent and the weather was perfect, which lent to a wonderful dining experience.  I walked around downtown Chimney Rock, NCAsheville one last time before heading back to the car and driving to Chimney Rock State Park.  It wasn’t a terribly long drive, but the drive up the mountain and to the State Park entrance was a doozy.  The switchbacks in the road were something I’d never handled and I took them slowly.  It’s usually $15 to enter the park, but that day there was a reduced fair due to the elevator to the top being out of service.  That was my first clue that I was in for a lot of stairs.  I parked by the gift shop and started the hike up to Chimney Rock, which is almost 100% stairs.  There were many lookouts on the way up, but I had my eye on the prize.  I made it to the top, panting and wheezing, and marveled at the beautiful view.  It was almost a 360 degree view of the gorgeous landscape below. I sat up there for a while, sipping my water and trying to catch my breath.  Once I was ready, I overheard talk of a waterfall, and decided to do that hike too.  The Hickory Nut Falls trail was back down the stairs, and then down some more stairs for good measure.  The trail to the waterfall was nice and shady, and not too long.

Hickory Nut Falls, Chimney Rock, NC Hickory Nut Falls, Chimney Rock, NC

After about twenty minutes, I was climbing down rocks to the base of the waterfall to put my feet in.  The cool water was heavenly on my sweaty, sore feet.  I could have sat there all day.  But I didn’t.  I hiked back up to the gift shop (I’m a sucker for gift shops) and asked one of the employees if Lake Lure was worth stopping by.  She kindly explained that it was only a mile up the road from the entrance to the park, so I Lake Lure, NCdrove back down the treacherous mountain and to the Lake Lure Welcome Center.  I was hoping for a full on Dirty Dancing homage (the movie was filmed there), and was a little disappointed to see that only a small corner was dedicated to the masterpiece.  I walked around the lake a bit, which was surrounded by resorts and featured a populated beach, before returning to Chimney Rock Village.  The village is lined with tourist shops and restaurant to explore.  As I made my way to my next hotel in Black Mountain, it started to rain.  In between Chimney Rock and my destination, there is a small town called Bat Cave, Bat Cave, NCNC.  Just past the town line is a rather ominous looking roadside market that sells produce, jellies and Bat Cave t-shirts, hats and magnets.  I did a U-turn on the mountain road to stop there and buy my Batman-obsessed boyfriend a Bat Cave gift.  The proprietor and employees there were happy to give me some fun facts about the area, including how there is an actual Bat Cave, which is now full of snakes.  Like Indiana Jones, I hate snakes, so I thanked them for their time and high-tailed it out of there.  I was back en route to the Monte Vista Hotel in Black Mountain, down Highway 9, when my cell phone service turned non-existent, effectively shutting down the GPS.  The serpentine roads wound through abandoned hills; I hardly passed any cars or buildings.  I had a moment of pThe Monte Vista Hotel, Black Mountain, NCanic thinking that I was lost without contact in the wild of North Carolina, before continuing on and eventually regaining the previously taken for granted power of GPS.  I made it to the hotel, and checked into a beautiful room in the new wing of the building.  To be honest, I was just happy to have my own, private bathroom.  I showered and exited the hotel to explore my new surroundings.  Most of the stores around Black Mountain were already closed for the evening (at 5:30pm), Black Mountain, NCbut the ones that were open featured local crafts and kitschy mountain gifts.  I went to the Trailhead for dinner and their special for the day: a fried chicken salad with Gouda cheese and local blackberries and heirloom tomatoes.  It was unexpectedly yummy.  After I settled the bill, I waltzed over to the Black Mountain Ale House for a Black Mountain IPA (Lookout Brewing Co.).  The Trivia Night promised on the sign outside never began, so I moved Black Mountain, NCon to the White Horse Black Mountain bar down the street.  It featured live Irish Music from 6:30-8:30pm and Open Mic night after that.  The proprietor, Bob, was such a gentleman and put up with me asking too many questions about local beers.  With his help, I chose Noble Hard Cider first and Green Man ESB second, both were so good.  He also took the time to explain what ESB stood for (Extra Special Bitter) and where it originated (Great Britain).  I nursed my beers and enjoyed the music, White Horse, Black Mountain, Black Mountain, NCbefore leaving the cozy yet cavernous bar and heading back to the hotel.  I had a glass of wine on the Monte Vista porch and wrote a bit.  The summer night was balmy, but the humidity had left with the sun and the current climate was perfect.  I went inside to return my wine glass at the bar, and wound up talking to the General Manager, Tony, of the hotel for a while about hotel life, Chicago, North Carolina and travel in general.  It was a great way to The Monte Vista Hotel, Black Mountain, NCend the evening.  The next morning I roused myself early to catch the continental breakfast of fruit, yogurt, cereal, coffee and juice.  The dining room is equal parts rustic and modern with dark wood furniture, local art on the walls and vases of wildflowers on each table.  Soon it was time to check out and head home to Chicago.  With road construction all along the route home, I had plenty of time to reflect on the trip.  It was my first solo road trip, and I am so happy I chose Asheville.  It’s friendly inhabitantsBlack Mountain, NC and beautiful scenery made the long drive completely worth it.  There were things I missed and would happy to make the trip for again.  Thanks for the hospitality NC, you were perfect.