Top Five Ways to Explore Your City, Rebecca Wanderlusting

Top Five Friday #14

Top Five Ways to Explore Your City

With all of the great destinations in the world, it may be easy to forget the one right outside your door.  While it may or may not be a tourist hot spot or a large city, your hometown is sure to have its merits.  I grew up in the teeny, tiny Midwest town of Johnsburg, IL (any Tom Waites fans out there??).  Despite the lack of things to do there , I remember writing an article for our high school newspaper on how to have a staycation spring break, which is pretty similar to this here blog.  It was fun to research and, even then, I was compelled by the idea that anywhere can be a vacation spot with some research, positivity, and maybe a little imagination.  When researching how to make Johnsburg a fun staycation destination, I believe we walked to the Mobile Gas Station for candy, stopped into Video Villa for a movie, and walked over to the public library to check out the selection.  I remember it as being a pretty solid day.  Anyways, the point of the matter is this: not everyone has the resources to travel each instance they get their hands on some vacation time, but it’s important not to overlook the beautiful place you live if you’re in need of an escape.  Here are my five best tips to explore your city:

Johnsburg, IL, Explore Your City, RebeccaWanderlusting

  1. Plan a stay at a local hotel – See your hometown as a visitor would by planning a little staycation at a hotel that interests you. Look on Tripadvisor to find one that matches your needs and budget.  Go all out and pair it with a night on the town, or stay in and enjoy the hotel amenities.  Either way, you’ll get to see a different side of your city that you wouldn’t get to witness inside your apartment.
  2. Check Pinterest – The world wide web is obviously full of information, and Pinterest gives you a concentrated selection of the points of interest that are in your city. The attractions others found there might be things that never would have occurred to you.  Furthermore, it may direct you to websites dedicated to events and festivities near you that you may have been completely unaware of.
  3. Take a tour – “Take a tour of my own city?? That’s crazy” you might be saying to yourself right about now. But, think about it, when you first moved to your particular corner of the globe, did you bother looking into tours of places that interested you? No? I certainly didn’t.  And in this day in age, there are so many independent tour companies out there, that you’re sure to find one in your city that is centered around your interests.  For example, the walking cupcake tour of Chicago is something I’d definitely like to try.
    Explore Your City, RebeccaWanderlusting
  4. Pick a Neighborhood and go for a stroll – Within your hometown, choose a neighborhood or area that you have yet to explore and take a walk. Sometimes the best coffee shops/restaurants/stores are ones that you’ve stumbled upon randomly.  Better yet, stop into each restaurant that catches your interest and have an appetizer, drink or dessert there to create your own personal food tour.
  5. Attend an Event or Festival – This may seem like a given, but not everyone takes advantage of these opportunities. There can be a ton of possibilities that suit all interests in terms of fests and events, especially during this time of year.  For example, during the summertime in Chicago, there is an art fair, music festival or street fest happening almost every single weekend.  Choose one and discover a new neighborhood, new restaurant or new side of your hometown.

Lollapalooza, Chicago, Explore Your City, RebeccaWanderlusting

What is your favorite way to explore your own city?  How often do you try new things in your hometown?

Smoky Mountains, Tennessee, RebeccaWanderlusting

Adventures in Gatlinburg, Part 1

The day we drove to Gatlinburg from Chattanooga was beautiful and sunny. It was a two and a half hour drive that took us through the mountains and through the technicolor nightmare that is Pigeon Forge. We stopped at the Visitor Center to get some Smoky Mountain maps and check out the gift shop before moving on to get groceries for the cabin.
Gatlinburg Welcome Center, RebeccaWanderlusting
The closest grocery store was Food City in Gatlinburg, so we loaded up on supplies there. Our cabin was up a winding, one way road into the mountains.  The drive was a little bit scary with the hairpin turns and steep drops, but the destination was so worth it. It was absolutely stunning; a log cabin perched on a peak with a perfect view of The Great Smoky Mountains.
Gatlinburg Cabin, Tennessee, RebeccaWanderlusting
The cabin had three levels, three bedrooms, three balconies, four bathrooms, a game room and a huge kitchen. We ate a lunch of grilled bratwurst and chips out on the porch and relaxed, all in awe of the view. Once we felt we had memorized every nuanced ridge and treetop, we drove to downtown Gatlinburg to explore and eventually get some dinner.  The drive downtown was about 20 minutes each way from our cabin.
Gatlinburg View, Tennessee, RebeccaWanderlusting
There is a parking garage right on the edge of downtown, on the corner of routes 321 and 441 that only charges a maximum of $6 that we utilized frequently (we usually paid less than the max). It’s an easy walk to the main drag from there. Downtown Gatlinburg is an interesting, kitschy city; the street is lined with places with names like Sweet Fanny Adams Theater, Cooters Dukes of Hazard Museum, Doc Collier’s Moonshine, Beef Jerky Outlet, Donut Friar, All Sauced Up Kitchen Fixins, Earthquake the Ride, and an unprecedented amount of Old Tyme Photos.  We navigated the streets among the other tourists, feeling like we had been transported to a different world.
Downtown Gatlinburg, RebeccaWanderlusting
We were planning on checking out the Smoky Mountain Brewery, however as a party of six and a half, the wait was 45+ minutes. We walked next door to Cherokee Grille instead. Luckily, we were able to order some Smoky Mountain draft beers there. We ordered a variety of entrees. I had the barbecue grilled chicken with rice and broccoli. The beer was great, the food was good. The service was friendly but a little frantic. After dinner, we strolled back down the parkway, taking in the street performers and sights. That evening, we sat out on the porch in the rocking chairs with a glass of wine. It was heavenly.
Downtown Gatlinburg, RebeccaWanderlusting
The next morning, we ate breakfast at the cabin and headed straight to Smoky Mountain National Park. The drive there took us right through downtown and then into the wilderness. Each drive we took through the park was prettier than the last. Our first stop was the Laurel Falls trail, which was a paved, two and a half mile hike. It had beautiful views but was very crowded. We walked in a single file line behind other hikers, past other hikers and with other hikers behind us; it felt a little like an assembly line.
Laurel Falls, RebeccaWanderlustingLaurel Falls, RebeccaWanderlusting
Once we reached Laurel Falls, it was easy to see what drew in all these people, and, as such, it was hard to take a photo without anyone else in it. Either way, it was a pretty hike. We drove onward to the Chimney Tops picnic area to have our sandwiches. Right next to the multiple picnic tables are some gorgeous rapids to dip your feet into. The water is chilly and the rocks are prime for climbing across to get a better view of the scenery.
Chimney Top, RebeccaWanderlusting
You can walk along the rapids a ways, but we moved on to our next hike, Clingman’s Dome, up the mountains.  The drive up is lined with many scenic overlooks, which is good because the view is too pretty to put into words.  Clingman’s Dome is the highest point in the park, so you have to drive quite a ways to get to the parking there.  From the parking lot, it’s a half mile hike straight uphill to get to the dome.  What’s cool about this hike is that it crosses the Appalachian Trail towards the top.
Appalachian Trail, RebeccaWanderlusting
There is a lazy spiral ramp that leads to the dome, where you can see a 360 degree of the mountains.  It is absolutely stunning and I took approximately 100 photos.  The way down from the dome was a lot easier than the way up as long as you don’t stop to admire the view.
Clingmans Dome, RebeccaWanderlustingClingman's Dome, RebeccaWanderlusting
We stopped at a few other spots to take pictures on the way down, including the state line between Tennessee and North Carolina.  Because we had all been craving margaritas all day, we met back in Gatlinburg for dinner at No Way Jose’s.  The margaritas there did not disappoint and the food was good too, albeit pretty typical Tex-Mex fare.
No Way Joses, Gatlinburg, RebeccaWanderlusting
I will say that their homemade salsa that they plunk down on the table just as soon as you sit down is out-of-this-world good.  After dinner we walked down to the Sky Lift, which my mom and I had spotted the night before and vowed to try out.  It was $16.50 a person for a round trip ticket to head up the mountain in a ski lift bench to the scenic overlook, cafe, and gift shop at the top and back down.
Sky Lift, Gatlinburg, RebeccaWanderlustingSky Lift, Gatlinburg, RebeccaWanderlusting
The ride was pretty slow but provided a spectacular view, and the view from the top, of Gatlinburg and the surrounding mountains, was gorgeous.  We gave in and bought the professional photo they took of us on the way up as a souvenir.  Our last stop of the evening was Maddog’s Ice Cream and Donuts for a treat before heading back to the cabin.  It was a cute, roadside shop with homemade donuts, soft serve, and ice cream.  They had some interesting statues outside, along with some picnic tables.  We took our ice cream to go and went back to our beautiful view at the cabin, looking forward to another full of hiking.

Maddogs, Gatlinburg, RebeccaWanderlusting

Happy Father's Day, Interview with Dad, RebeccaWanderlusting

Happy Father’s Day!

An Ode to My Dad, The Adventurer

My Dad influences me in a lot of ways.  He’s just the epitome of what a dad should be: honest and hard-working, encouraging, adventurous and fun. He has always been an excellent role model.  Of course one of the biggest ways he has influenced my life is instilling a love of travel in me.  Growing up, as I’ve said before, we traveled a lot, usually going to National Parks and doing outdoorsy things.  My Dad was always the one climbing over fences and across rivers, waving at us from a place we couldn’t quite reach, adventuring further in the wild than the National Parks typically allowed and then coming back with a huge, trouble-maker grin on his face.  To me, he’s the original adventurer.  While we were in Tennessee this past week, we sat in rocking chairs on the porch of our cabin in Gatlinburg and talked about travel and how it has influenced his life.

RW: What generally inspires you to pick the destinations that you travel to?

What there is to do outdoors, like golf, kayak, explore outside.  National Parks are big for us.”

My mom sat out there with us, sipping coffee and chiming in when needed.  When I had asked how they chose where they took us when we were kids, she explained that it was such a treat for her parents to take her to Disney world when she was young, so they took us there twice within the span of a few years.  After the second time, my dad had had enough and explained that he did not want to see animatronic animals and hear canned music, he wanted to go somewhere real.  This is how our trips to National Parks started.  This first one we went to was Yellowstone, and we road-tripped there just as my dad had done when he was young.

What did you like most about going to the National Parks when you were a kid?

I always liked the hikes.  Sometimes we would go on guided hikes with a ranger, sometimes on our own.  They would always have a movie in the outdoor theater area where they’d show movies at night.  We’d always go to those.  They were nature movies about birds or about wherever we were, about the park.”

My dad’s parents would take him, his three brothers and two sisters on road trips out west to National Parks and they would camp wherever they went.

Fathers Day, RebeccaWanderlusting

Did you take us to the same parks to relive those memories?

“No, we took you there because they’re beautiful, they’re a part of the big wide world.  I think everyone should see them.”

Did we influence where we went on the trips?

“Well, obviously we did things that you would be able to do.  We didn’t go on ten mile hikes…well, yes we did sometimes.  But we tried to gear it towards you kids and not do something you couldn’t do.” 

While I do love those hikes now, I remember liking those long hikes as a kid ONLY if we could go to the gift shop at the end of them.

Why do you think it was important to take us on trips when we were kids?

“I don’t know, it was just ingrained.  My parents took us on trips.  I think it makes you appreciate things better.”

What motivates you to travel now?

There’s still places on the list that we want to see.  It’s never going to be empty.  We look forward to our trips.  We don’t need to take big trips either, you know, we take little trips on the weekend.  We take off for a day or overnight or whatever.  If we aren’t tied to the house for whatever reason, for chores or managing life, then we’re going somewhere.”

I think it’s also important to note that during this trip, my parents towed a trailer all the way to Tennessee and beyond that contained their motorcycle, kayaks and golf clubs.  They moved on to Asheville after the rest of us went home to have a few more adventures.  If that doesn’t sum it up, I don’t know what else could.

Fathers Day, RebeccaWanderlusting
Which destination has been your favorite so far?

“Italy, by far.”

My parents took a trip to Italy in 2010 for their thirtieth anniversary.  While there, they traveled to Rome, Tuscany and The Amalfi Coast, right on the Mediterranean.

What was your favorite part about Italy?

“A big part of that was being some place new, a new culture, but also to see things that are so old, so important in history.”

What would be your dream destination right now?

I don’t think I can pin one down, there’s still so many things we want to see.”

Just pick one.

I’d love to go to New Zealand.  It’s supposed to be beautiful for motorcycling.  I think because my dad was stationed there in the service (The Navy).  The other one that comes to mind is not very exotic, but your mom and I want to go soon: The Southwest National Parks: Zion, Bryce and the Arches.”

What is your best travel advice?

Be patient.  Enjoy the moment, it’s so easy to get caught up with getting from one point to another point, you get frustrated.  It’s an old statement, but it’s not about getting from point A to point B, it’s the whole thing.  That’s true.  I’ve been guilty of getting caught up in the destination part.”

“Just get out there and do it.  There’s too much world to see, don’t be a hermit crab.”

 Fathers Day, RebeccaWanderlusting

HAPPY FATHER’S DAY TO ALL THE DADS OUT THERE!  Especially mine.  Thanks for everything, Dad – keep on exploring.

Trip Planning: Traverse City, MI, RebeccaWanderlusting

Chattanooga, TN Reunion

We left Chicago at 6:20am after it took me the usual 20 minutes to leave the house (double checking the doors were locking, unplugging every little thing and grabbing a last minute jacket that I never once needed in the 90 degree heat).  The drive took about 10 hours with stopping for gas and lunch and the accidental detour we took through historic Downtown Louisville, KY.  I like what I saw there though! I wouldn’t mind returning there to explore for a weekend.  Once we got towards the Tennessee border, the GPS took us down a rural highway past sprawling farmlands and green topped mountains.  Scenic route, indeed.
Road to Chattanooga, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
We stayed in a Comfort Inn and Suites (remember last time?), in Hixson, TN, which is right near Chattanooga.  We dropped off our bags, changed clothes, and headed to dinner at the Lakeshore Grille in Chattanooga.  My cousin Leslie and her husband, Mike, met us there, and we all sat out on their porch for a drink and some casual fare.  The food took quite a while to come out, but they kept us from getting too hungry with plates of homemade potato chips slathered with chipotle ranch.
Lakeshore Grille, Chattanooga, Tennessee, RebeccaWanderlustingLakeshore Grille Chipotle Chips in Chattanooga, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
It was really nice to be able to catch up with our southern kin. We all ordered burgers, which were really good and worth the wait.  After dinner, we went back to the hotel and I passed out almost immediately.  The next morning, we grabbed something from the little continental breakfast at the hotel and then headed to Falling Water, the small town where our Tennessee family lives.  We spent some time chit chatting before going for a walk through the neighborhood.
Country Lane, Falling Water, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
The significance of this place is that my mom’s father grew up here, and this is where he and my grandma lived when they were first married.  His side of the family is still here and we try and come visit as often as we can.  Not only because they are so wonderful, but it’s also nice to be able to remember my grandparents through this place they used to live.  We walked past the pretty little church they go to, and to the cemetery at the top of a hill, where relatives I never knew are buried.  It may sound a little morbid, but it’s actually a really beautiful sunlit clearing.
Jackson Family Cemetery, TN, RebeccaWanderlustingHydrangeas, Falling Water, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
From there, we walked down the lane to the end, passing farm houses, chickens, and gardens, all farmed in front of the mountains.  The natural beauty of this place is almost surreal.  After our walk, we made our way to Leslie’s house for a huge, Southern, barbecue lunch of pulled pork, baked beans, coleslaw, sweet corn casserole, pasta salad, potato casserole and key lime pie.
Homemade BBQ Feast, Falling Water, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
We ate out on the porch despite the heat, and everyone went back for seconds.  The whole meal was just perfect, and put all of our favorite barbecue joints in Chicago to shame.  After lunch, we jumped into their pool to cool off and had a couple of pain killer cocktails poolside (pineapple juice, rum, coconut milk and nutmeg).  We lounged by the pool for a while, the heat made us a bit lethargic.
Poolside Cocktails, Falling Water, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
Soon enough, we got our act together and Mike and I split off from the group to check out Downtown Chattanooga.  Our first stop was Mean Mug Coffeehouse on the south side of Chattanooga.  It was a hip spot with local art on the walls and excellent espresso.  We also ordered a blackberry scone as a last minute decision and it was such a good one.  It was a perfect crumbly yet soft texture and drizzled with icing.  I will have dreams about that scone, I know it.
Mean Mug Coffeehouse, Chattanooga, TN, RebeccaWanderlustingMean Mug Coffeehouse, Chattanooga, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
From there, we went to Frazier Street to check out the cute shops and the pedestrian walkway.  We liked Luxe Boutique for its cute clothes and accessories and Winder Binder for its amazing collection of books and records for very reasonable prices.
Winder Binder, Chattanooga, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
We walked halfway across the pedestrian walkway to the sounds of the River Bend music festival.  The walkway offered gorgeous views of the city, Tennessee River and the mountains beyond.  To be honest, with what little we saw of it, Chattanooga charmed the pants off of us.
Pedestrian Walkway, Chattanooga, TN, RebeccaWanderlustingPedestrian Walkway, Chattanooga, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
We went back to Falling Water for a solid last visit with my Aunt Sue, Leslie and her husband.  We had leftover barbecue for dinner because, yes, it was just that good.  We left them with promises to visit again soon, which I fully intend to keep.  Mike and I then went back to Chattanooga for a cocktail at Stir, which Leslie had recommended.  It was very close to Mean Mug, and we were able to park on the street and walk over.  Stir was housed in a beautiful old brick building, with twinkling lights inside and a nice porch outside, which is where we sat.
Stir Cocktails, Chattanooga, TN, RebeccaWanderlusting
Stir is known for their “artisanal ice” which means that their drinks all come with interestingly shaped ice.  My delicious Elderflower Sour came with a large rectangular cube in it.  The drinks were good and the service was wonderful.  It definitely ended the Chattanooga leg of our trip on a high note.  The next morning we hit the road again on our way to Gatlinburg, TN.

Travel Inspiration Tuesday

I’ve been having a hard time getting inspired lately.  Maybe it’s this travel lull I’m in or perhaps it’s this rainy, cold weather.  Either way, I’ve been fighting to claw my way out of this funk.  And what do I do when I’m in need of inspiration?  Go for a walk, read a book, check out my favorite blogs, and so on.  In my recent search for inspiration, I’ve stumbled upon a few gems that I couldn’t help but share:

  1. I have been reading this amazing book, “Hold Still” by Sally Mann, that radiates with inspiration through the author’s passion for photography and love for her Virginia home.
  2. Recently, I’ve been looking into booking hotels for my Europe trip in September, and found this amazingly artful boutique hotel in Reykjavik, Hotel Holt,  and booked it immediately.
  3. I’ve just purchased a Nikon D3300, which was a pretty big investment for me.  I took it home to my parents’ house and snapped a few shots of their garden.  This is one of my favorites:
    Travel Inspiration Tuesday
  4. Geraldine of The Everywhereist has been making me actively stifle laughter at work as I read her hilarious attempts to thwart email spammers, which can be found here.
  5. This landed in my inbox via Lonely Planet and it spoke directly to my tendency to over-romanticize train rides.  All of these routes have been immediately added to my bucket list.
  6. I am absolutely dying to try this scrumptious looking recipe for Strawberry Cookies and Cream Cake from Joy the Baker.
  7. Scanning the Every Girl the other day, I came upon an article mentioning the Bus and Us and have been hooked on their road tripping adventures ever since.
  8. I went for a stroll beside Lake Michigan earlier this month, Beyonce’s Lemonade inspiring me as I walked.  Along the way, I snapped a photo for Instagram that I think is pretty striking:
    Travel Inspiration Tuesday
  9. I am trying to find a free weekend to plan a trip to the beautiful Matthiessen State Park, which is only an hour and a half drive from Chicago.
  10. And, finally: I thought this was really beautiful and everything I needed to hear at this exact moment.

What about you?  What inspires you? Where do you find you inspiration?

Top 5 Tips for Getting a Hotel Upgrade

Top Five Friday #12

Top 5 Tips for Getting a Hotel Upgrade

It’s always a nice bonus to get a room upgrade when you’re on vacation; like the cherry on top of an already perfect sundae.  Though they don’t typically come easily, there are some tried and true ways to secure an upgrade.  Whether attempted during the reservation process or during check in, these five tips can help you improve your accommodations:

  1. Just ask: When you check in, simply ask the Front Desk if there are any room upgrades available. Don’t be forceful or demanding, keep it light and friendly.  The key is to be casual and conversational.  If it’s a slower day, they may have plenty of upgrades available.  If it’s a no go, say “thank you for checking” and move on with the check-in.
    Top 5 Tips for Getting a Hotel Upgrade
  2. Be nice: This goes hand in hand with tip #1. As a rule, it’s always, always better to be nice to any customer service professional.  If you’ve worked in customer service, you know how many jerks these lovely people have to deal with each day.  Don’t be one of them.  You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar, right? Being kind and appreciative goes a long way.
  3. Mention that you’re celebrating: If you actually are celebrating something, let the staff know! If you’re not celebrating any real occasion, make one up.  Sure, it’s a little white lie, but it’s bound to get you at least a complimentary bottle of wine sent to your room.  It works even better if you let the reservation agent know your celebrating a birthday, anniversary, whatever when you’re making your room reservation.  The upgrade could be set up before you even arrive.
    Top 5 Tips for Getting a Hotel Upgrade
  4. Book your reservation through the hotel: I am not trying to knock online booking systems like Orbitz or Expedia, I use them and love them. That being said, if you choose to book through the hotel directly, you have a better chance of being upgraded because you’re paying their rack rates.  If the hotel has rooms to upgrade, guests that are paying the hotel’s rates (as opposed to the cheaper rates offered on those websites) are more likely to be upgraded.
  5. Offer to Pay for It: If all else fails, offer to pay for an upgrade. While you are spending a little extra, you will almost certainly not be paying the rack rate for the upgraded room.  Coming by the upgrade honestly isn’t the worst way to go, and spending more might mean more amenities in the long run.

What about you? Do you have any go-to tips to secure a room upgrade?

6 Travel Lessons I learned from My Mom

6 Travel Lessons I Learned From My Mom

Tomorrow is Mother’s Day, and what better way to honor my own mother than to share her sage wisdom.  Starting from when I was very young, my parents whisked my older sister and me away to destinations throughout the United States at least once a year.  In short, they are mostly responsible for my strong desire to travel.  They’ve taken us on road trips to national parks, camping throughout the Midwest, and on flights to many beautiful destinations.  Most of the time, we knew how lucky we were, but of course there were times when we could have been perceived as ungrateful, like most kids can be.
6 Travel Lessons I Learned from My Mom
My mom has always had a knack for making everything fun; from picking up sticks in the yard to  a very long car ride to Yellowstone National Park.  Whether it was bribing us with a penny per twig or hyping up another game of highway bingo, she always knew the perfect thing to do to make us happy.  As we grew older, this became a challenging task (like trying to make two sullen teenagers appreciate a trip San Diego when all they wanted to do was text their boyfriends back home), but Mom kept at it and I am so grateful she did.  Travel has wound itself into our family’s happiest moments, and continues to do so now.  We actually have a family trip to Gatlinburg coming up, that I am so excited for, but more on that later.  Here are the best travel tips and lessons I’ve learned from my Mom:

  1. Do your research and make some plans: There was never a family vacation that we would just wing it. Our parents always had a general plan of things we would do once we go to whichever destination.  Whether it was hiking Mount Rainier or taking a catamaran cruise in the Pacific Ocean, we knew we were always getting the best the destination had to offer because they did the research beforehand.
  2. Bring a good book: We are all pretty big readers, so a good book was always on the packing list. When we went on road trips, there was always a book on tape (Harry Potter being the favorite), and if we flew, Mom always made sure we had a book to read and our favorite magazines for good measure.
  3. Always pack an extra pair of underwear: You just never know when you’re going to need it. Better safe than sorry.
  4. Stop to take in the scenery: As a family, we mostly traveled to places with gorgeous scenery, particularly to National Parks. There were typically a lot of hikes involved, which were always punctuated with stops to admire a particular flower or view.  This appreciation of both the little things and the big picture made/make each trip extraordinarily beautiful.
  5. Pack Layers: Again, you just never know what you’ll need. My mom is an expert packer and always made sure that we were never without an item of clothing or specific accessory that we needed while away.
  6. Stay off the beaten path, especially with accommodations: It was a rarity that we ever stayed in a chain hotel or one over-run with tourists. Mom was adept at finding excellent hotels that were far from the run-of-the-mill inn or suites. From the hotel almost directly on the beach in Sanibel Island to Timberline Lodge on Mount Hood in Oregon, the hotel choices she makes are consistently unique and memorable.

6 Travel Lessons I Learned from My Mom

Happy Mother’s Day to all the Mama’s out there! 

Especially mine!  Thank you for everything you’ve taught me and everything you do. 

A Note on Over-Planning

A Note on Over-Planning

There is a delicate balance to planning a trip: under-plan and you might miss out on things you really wanted to do, over-plan and you’re apt to drive yourself crazy trying to accomplish everything.  While there certainly is a benefit to creating a plan for your vacation activities, scheduling too many things to do and see is a sure-fire way to turn your relaxing trip into a stress-fueled nightmare.  I’ll admit, I have a tendency to be a bit overzealous when it comes to making my vacation to-do lists, which can lead to a lot of running around and not a lot of enjoying the city I’m visiting.  I learned the hard way what over-planning does to a trip once I arrive.  Case in point: Washington, D.C.  I booked my plane ticket two months before I was due to leave, so I had plenty of time to read D.C. travel blogs and compiled a two page, unedited, intimidating list of things to do and see while I was there.
Washington Harbor, Washington DC, US Travel
Perhaps if I had more than three days to work with, this wouldn’t be a problem, but as it stood, I was working with a pretty limited time frame.  As a result, I spent most of my time in D.C. running from museum to monument to restaurant and back again.  So much so that when I finally retired to my hotel room each night, I passed out early from pure exhaustion.  I put so much pressure on myself to do everything, see everything and eat everything, that I was more exasperated than excited, which isn’t really the desired emotion during vacations.  I don’t mean to say that I didn’t enjoy my time in D.C., I really did!  I’m so grateful that I had the opportunity to explore this new city, and there were plenty of great moments during the trip.  However, on the flight back home, I couldn’t help but feel a little disappointed in myself for not enjoying it at a more leisurely pace.  I missed out on a couple of things that I was really hoping to do simply because there were so many other things.  That’s crazy, right?  Travel should be freeing and exciting, not make you feel like you’re still at work.  It was a hard/expensive lesson to learn but I’m glad I can move forward from it.  The silver lining is, now I can work on not doing that again.  For future trips, I will make my to-do lists more curated to my interests.

Over-Planning, Trip Planning, Travel Tips

How do you plan your trips?  Do you make to-do lists or just go with the flow? 

7 Bookstores Worth Traveling To

7 Bookstores Worth Traveling To

If you travel often, there are certain things you look for in each city you visit.  For some it might be themed bars or local cuisine or perhaps museums.  For me, it’s bookstores.  It’s no secret that I’m an avid reader, so of course I always try to seek out a unique bookstore everywhere I go.  I love searching through each set of shelves and stacks to discover books that I’ve been wanting to read for ages, or books I never knew I needed.  Whether they’re new or used, fiction or non-fiction, I’m happy as long as there are plenty to sift through.  Though all these bookstores contain book selections for all types of bibliophiles, each shop has its own distinct style and flavor.  Here are my favorite bookstores I’ve visited so far that are worth an entire vacation planned around them:

  1. Atticus Coffee, Books & Teahouse, Park City, Utah: I was lucky enough to happen upon this delightful bookshop/café when I was visiting my best friend in Salt Lake City. We drove up to Park City one afternoon to explore and wandered into Atticus.  The small-ish store was chock full of charm, with half the space dedicated to books and gifts and the other half café seating.  I didn’t get to purchase any books because of limited luggage space, but I wanted everything.
    Atticus Bookstore, Park City, Bookstores Worth Traveling To
  2. The Strand Bookstore, New York, NY: The Strand is a bibliophile’s dream, boasting 18 miles of books in its selection. You could spend hours getting lost in the multiple floors of new and used books, gifts and assorted paper goods.  I bought more books there than I probably should have and had to beg Mike to let me put half of them in his suitcase to transport them home.  It was worth it.  The Strand is located in the East Village with a bonus kiosk in Central Park.
    The Strand Bookstore, New York, 7 Bookstores worth traveling to
  3. Battery Park Book Exchange, Asheville, NC: What is better than leisurely browsing through books? Browsing through books with a glass of champagne in hand!  Battery Park is the Café/Bar/Bookstore of your dreams, where you are free to sit and read and sip or wander the store with your beverage of choice.  I had two glasses of champagne while I browsed and came away with a beautiful copy of “The Sun Also Rises”.  The two-story store is located in the Grove Arcade mall in Downtown Asheville.
    Battery Park Book Exchange, 7 Bookstores Worth Traveling To
  4. City Lights Booksellers & Publishers, San Francisco, CA: This Beat Generation bookshop is full of history and good vibes. It is a 3-level mecca of books of all kinds, from the top floor, which is full of poetry and beat generation classics, down to the basement, where the science fiction books are housed.  The staff at City Lights are super friendly and happy to offer suggestions if needed.  We bought a couple of books (“Indian Journals” by Allen Ginsburg for me) and headed next door to Vesuvio Café to start reading.
    City Lights Bookstore, 7 Bookstores Worth Traveling To
  5. Kramerbooks & Afterwords Cafe, Washington, D.C.: Nestled into Dupont Circle, Kramerbooks red neon sign beckons to book lovers passing by. The bookstore/restaurant has an amazing selection of books catering to all tastes and genres.  I particularly enjoyed their large travel book section.  The restaurant has a beautiful patio to sit and read at.  That is where I enjoyed my newly purchased book (“Medium Raw” by Anthony Bourdain) with a delicious slice of their Apple Crumble Pie.
    Kramerbooks & Afterwords, 7 Bookstores Worth Traveling To
  6. Capitol Hill Books, Washington, D.C.: This gem is located in the Capitol Hill neighborhood (obviously), right next to The Eastern Market. This used bookstore presents itself as a treasure hunt through its haphazard shelves and stacks.  Its multiple rooms on two floors are a wonderful maze of every kind of book you could want.  If you can spare the time, it’s worth it to get lost in Capitol Hill Books for a few hours.
    Capitol Hill Bookstore, 7 Bookstores Worth Traveling To
  7. Myopic Books, Chicago, IL: I may not have to travel far to get to Myopic books, but it is absolutely worth a visit for bibliophiles visiting Chicago. It’s located in Wicker Park, right across from Furious Spoon (ramen – yum!).  Myopic has four floors of floor-to-ceiling shelves stocked with used books.  I personally love the basement level, which is where they keep the Stephen King novels.  I have spent many rainy days searching through the frequently updated selection here, and I can confidently say that is one of my favorite bookstores.
    Myopic Books, 7 Bookstores Worth Traveling To

Where is your favorite bookstore?  Have you been to any on this list?

Kalapaki Beach, Kauai, Hawaii, Wanderlust Wednesday

Wanderlust Wednesday: Kauai, Hawaii

When I was ten years old, my family took a week-long trip to Maui.  This trip stands out as one of my all-time favorites for a multitude of reasons.  As a small-town Midwesterner, everything was so exotic and new to me on this gorgeous, vibrant island.  The things that stick in my memory most are staying in a vacation rental on the ocean and hunting for geckos on the path to the beach, jumping off the top of a waterfall and hitting the water square on my ass (making sitting painful for days), doing the hula at a luau in a small, grass skirt, and taking a sailing cruise, spotting dolphins leaping through the clear blue waves.  Of course I want to go back, this time to Kauai.  I’m confident that the experience will be just as magical as the first time.  The trip is not yet booked, but if it was, here’s how it would all shake out:

North Shore Off-Roading, Kauai, Hawaii, Wanderlust Wednesday
Photo Courtesy of Kauai.com

What I would see and do:

  • First of all, rent a car to explore the island as much as possible
  • HIKE! Kauai is rich with state parks like Na Pali Coast and Waimea Canyon
  • Sail out into the open sea
  • Attempt to surf at one of the many gorgeous beaches
  • Seek out all of the waterfalls, like Hanakapiai Falls and Wailua Falls

What and where I would eat:

  • Loco Moco – a local delicacy consisting of rice, a meat patty, egg and gravy
  • Tide Pools at the Grand Hyatt – a romantic, fine dining establishment
  • Gaylords which is located in an old mansion, and offers an amazing selection of seafood

Where I would stay:

Boat Tours, Kauai, Hawaii, Wanderlust Wednesday
Photo Courtesy of Kauai.com

When I would go:

  • Late Spring/Early Summer when airfare is cheaper and the weather is prime.

How I would get there:

  • Alaskan Air is actually the best option financially from Chicago, with the catch that there is a stopover in Seattle.

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Have you ever been to Kauai, or any of the Hawaiian Islands? What did you think?